October 17, 2012

DV Awareness Month???

Once again it's October...& once again I see nothing but pink!  Don't get me wrong, I'm glad to see it, my Mother is a breast cancer survivor, but it just really makes me jealous at times & sooo mad that there is no purple!  So far, I haven't even heard it mentioned that it is awareness month!

I was talking to a survivor on the phone earlier in the month, & she felt so forgotten & mad that DV wasn't even being mentioned anywhere, & that most of the population doesn't even know it's DV Awareness Month.  The problem is too, that most don't even know that purple is the awareness color!

DV feeds off of isolation & the lack of information.

That right there is the thought that got me up at 5 something in the a.m. & figuring out how to blog from the phone & give my thumbs some early morning excercising.  DV feeds off of isolation & the lack of informtion...oh & let's not forget mis-information!  DV victims & survivors feel so alone in their fight, & for those that are healing the lack of DV ever being mentioned, mostly during DV Awereness Month, it's a hard pill to swallow.

So here's my thought for this a.m. ... what is the DV community going to do to change this?  What can we as Survivors as a whole do about this?  I have some thoughts...would love to hear yours!

August 16, 2012

Cocooned in Isolation…

Sometimes the silence, sometimes the time we take for ourselves away from others is what is needed. Instead of fighting against it, take that time to spend with yourself and find you again...

Cocooned in Isolation

About Marital Rape up on LC Library

There is Rape within Marriages! My x-husband would rape me, at the time I didn't see it as rape exactly, just something I didn't want. I didn't realize that him forcing sex on me, or taking advantage of me while on medications and/or asleep

was a sickness, was indeed rape. It really didn't fully hit me until about last month how sick it was when I found out my x-husband is in jail for pedophilia. I'm understanding better now that those that take sexual advantages of someone within a marriage or relationship has a sickness that extends that relationship/situation. Those that rape are sick! They need help, they need to be locked up so that they don't hurt someone else. Know that if you've gone through Marital Rape, it isn't your fault! It isn't your shame to carry around! Put the blame where it belongs and heal...

Le Chrysalis Library: About Marital Rape