Showing posts with label Domestic Violence Incident. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Domestic Violence Incident. Show all posts

August 31, 2015

Seaford, DE Man Arrested for Attempted Murder

I apologize for this being on LC main site, it will be removed once the LC Library is fixed and re-opened.  Working on it! 

Saw on the news that a young man had slit the throat of a female outside her home.  They did NOT mention that they were in a relationship in any way, that it was domestic violence in nature, or that he threatened her or the female that accompanied her to the hospital.

Sadly, yes, her getting her throat sliced is horrible news!  Don’t get me wrong, it really is!  Yet, I can’t help but feel that WBOC dropped the ball when they failed to mention, when they failed to take the opportunity, to expose a domestic violence situation for what it was and to announce his threat which would have helped downplay it and hopefully make it so he wouldn’t dare go through with it.

Domestic Violence happens so much more then anyone within the field wants to admit, truthfully, more then any of us want to admit…

Last night I was with a dear friend, and as usual when she is with her boyfriend with her, they argue ;(  This time they didn’t just argue, screaming ensued, even with a bunch of children in the house along with me. I wanted to disappear into the wall because I knew it was one of those situations where if you tried to step in, not only were you going to get your head cut off by both of them, but they would turn around and continue with the argument anyway.  I stepped in when the children were right behind them, one in particular they were screaming about to each other, who then cried hysterically and slammed the door into an empty room down the hall from what she heard them screaming.  I got my head snapped off…nothing that hasn’t happened before… ouchie!!! Yeah…ok…next??? lol 

I shared all of this to say…even with planning on getting ready for a birthday, domestic violence can set in. 

We can’t stay away or fully stop domestic violence, but we can help a friend going through it by being there with her and the children.  You can’t stop Domestic Violence, but maybe your good at the computer and can help out in that way?  Maybe your schedule is just too full, but maybe you can help financially to your local DV Shelter?  Believe me, they can always use help!

It’s just like in Church…God has given each of us God Give talents, and we need to use them!!!!  With us working together, we can help slow down the progression of Domestic Violence!!!

 

Seaford Man Arrested for Attempted Murder
Posted: Aug 29, 2015 3:34 PM EDT

By Ariel Barry

Darnell Aiken

Darnell Aiken, 20, of Seaford      

BRIDGEVILLE, Del. – A Seaford man is charged with attempted murder after police say he cut his girlfriend's throat.

Troopers responded to Nanticoke Memorial Hospital Friday night just before 9 p.m. for reports of a female with a severe laceration to her neck. 

When troopers arrived, they were initially told an unknown suspect slashed the 20-year-old female's neck with a knife while she was on the front steps of her home on Nat Turner Street in Bridgeville. 

Police say further investigation revealed the woman and her boyfriend, 20-year-old Darnell Aiken of Seaford, were involved in a verbal altercation inside her home when Aiken went into the kitchen and grabbed a knife. 

According to police, Aiken then returned to the living room and swung the knife at the victim, causing the large laceration to her neck. 

Troopers say Aiken, along with another female in the house at the time, brought the victim to Nanticoke Hospital. According to police, Aiken threatened harm to them if they said what really happened.

Detectives took Darnell Aiken into custody at the hospital with some resistance and transported him back to Troop 5 in Bridgeville.  He was later charged with Attempted Murder 1st, Possession of a Deadly Weapon During the Commission of a Felony, Resisting Arrest, Terrorist Threatening, and Criminal Mischief to a police vehicle.  He was arraigned at JP3 and is being held without bail at Sussex Correctional Institution.

The victim's current condition and status are unknown.

Source:

WBOC.com

September 12, 2014

JB’s NFL Message on Domestic Violence

Like many others, I’ve heard Domestic Violence being mentioned often as of late.  The fact that Ray Rice was abusive towards his girlfriend is nothing anyone can dispute, it was caught on video.  The fact that they went light on his suspension without the video of what happened inside the elevator isn’t surprising, and the fact that his life time suspension has been given after seeing the video is very heartening that they are taking this seriously.

Hearing Domestic Violence being mentioned on the news and within the NFL has been great to hear!  Sadly it takes a case where a NFL star is involved to make them talk about the issue and how important it is to do something about it.

I’ve heard the issue with Ray Rice over and over….yet the news about Timothy Ray Jones killing his 5 children hasn’t been plastered all over our TV’s.  In fact, I hadn’t heard about what happened until I saw it online, and not sure if they put it on the local news or not, I haven’t seen anything mentioned about it.  It’s sad, that Ray Rice is getting so much air time yet the fact that 5 children, ages 1-8, doesn’t rate even near enough mentioning….

I Thank James Brown for his message….more DOES NEED to be done about Domestic Violence!  Hearing it on the news, on talk shows, and within the NFL that is male dominated is needed!  I just pray that this doesn’t fizzle out like I’ve seen it do after other cases of Domestic Violence happening to stars.  I pray that the momentum that we are seeing right now continue and that more become aware of what is going on within our families and just how prevalent Domestic Violence is.

 

By Will Brinson | NFL Writer

September 11, 2014 9:22 pm ET

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James Brown gave an impassioned speech against domestic violence on Thursday. (via CBS)

Few sportscasters are more universally respected than CBS Sports' James Brown. (Claim bias or whatever you want but JB is a pro's pro and good luck finding a dissenting opinion.)

He showed why on Thursday night when he provided an impassioned, rational plea to a national audience -- "the NFL community and all men" -- to do something about domestic violence in light of the Ray Rice situation. Specifically, as he noted two years ago after Chiefs player Jovan Belcher killed his girlfriend and then himself, "to seriously confront the problem."

“Two years ago I challenged the NFL community and all men to seriously confront the problem of domestic violence, especially coming on the heels of the murder-suicide of Kansas City Chiefs football player Jovan Belcher and his girlfriend Kasandra Perkins. Yet, here we are again dealing with the same issue of violence against women.

Now let's be clear, this problem is bigger than football. There has been, appropriately so, intense and widespread outrage following the release of the video showing what happened inside the elevator at the casino. But wouldn't it be productive if this collective outrage, as my colleagues have said, could be channelled to truly hear and address the long-suffering cries for help by so many women? And as they said, do something about it? Like an on-going education of men about what healthy, respectful manhood is all about.

And it starts with how we view women. Our language is important. For instance, when a guy says, ‘you throw the ball like a girl' or ‘you're a little sissy,' it reflects an attitude that devalues women and attitudes will eventually manifest in some fashion. Women have been at the forefront in the domestic violence awareness and prevention arena. And whether Janay Rice considers herself a victim or not, millions of women in this country are.

Consider this: According to domestic violence experts, more than three women per day lose their lives at the hands of their partners. That means that since the night of February 15th in Atlantic City more than 600 women have died.

So this is yet another call to men to stand up and take responsibility for their thoughts, their words, their deeds, and as Deion [Sanders] says, to give help or to get help, because our silence is deafening and deadly.”

It's a well-stated message that came across even better the way Brown phrased it.

In light of everything happening around the NFL these days, it's a lesson everyone would do well to heed.

Source:

CBS Sports.com

March 1, 2012

Pottstown police aim to curb domestic violence

“It doesn’t matter how good of a police agency you have when it comes to domestic violence ... those are crimes that happen in the privacy of people’s own homes. Good police work isn’t going to prevent domestics from happening,” he said. However, he emphasized, educating people about domestic violence and providing resources to victims, “those are things that can be done to reduce incidents of domestic violence.”

By Brandie Kessler
bkessler@pottsmerc.com

Posted: 02/26/12

Mercury file photo Pottstown police chief Mark Flanders.

POTTSTOWN — The Mercury had no sooner confirmed a murder in the borough Feb. 2, than rumors began to fly about the motive of that killing.

Comments on PottsMerc.com, The Mercury’s website, and its Facebook page immediately began referencing “PottsVegas,” and the misguided belief, summed up in one comment that the killing was “prolly over a measly 20 dollar drug exchange.”

Although some people made comments defending Pottstown, stating that crime can happen anywhere, the overwhelming majority of comments painted a picture of a community littered with crime, drugs and murder.

But just as police confirmed the Feb. 2 murder — the first murder in the borough in more than four years — stemmed from an alleged domestic incident in which a 31-year-old mother of two was allegedly strangled by her boyfriend, police also say Pottstown’s reputation and the statistics regarding crime within the borough’s borders don’t jibe.

Police Chief Mark Flanders recently spoke out about the reality of crime in Pottstown, and the necessity to stop giving credence to the misinformation when real issues, like domestic violence, deserve the attention.

“Crime is proportionate to population across America,” Flanders said. “We’re no different. (But) our crime rate is perceived to be high with no consideration to our population.”

With more than 22,000 residents in the 5.1-square-mile borough, Flanders said there’s bound to be crime, much as there is crime every place that people live.

“Crime is unacceptable, but it’s a reality,” he said.

Another thing that is unacceptable, he said, is the perpetuation of misinformation regarding crime in Pottstown.

“When I hear people say ... ‘there’s a murder that happens every weekend (in Pottstown),’ it’s totally not true. We haven’t had a murder since 2008,” Flanders said. “When I hear comments that drug dealers are killing each other left and right, no, that’s not accurate.”

Flanders said that through his career in the borough, “most of the homicide investigations have involved individuals who had a relationship with one another,” meaning they were married, dating, friends or acquaintances, and the murder was not a random act of violence.

That is once again the case with the Feb. 2 murder of Alicia Schmidt, allegedly at the hands of her boyfriend, Edwin Carrero II. Police found Schmidt’s body in the basement of her residence after they responded there to follow-up on a report. According to court records, Carrero made an early morning phone call to his ex-wife and told her he may have killed Schmidt. He stated he choked Schmidt and pushed her down the stairs. He then asked his ex-wife to give him “a half hour to an hour” before she called police.

Carrero was captured by authorities on Feb. 7. He allegedly fled from Pennsylvania in Schmidt’s vehicle, and he was arrested at a Florida resort casino after he was observed in Schmidt’s vehicle. He is awaiting extradition back to Montgomery County where he will face murder and related charges.

Although Flanders would not speak about the Carrero case, as it is his department’s policy to not comment on ongoing investigations, Mercury archives indicate the relationship between Carrero and Schmidt is typical of relationships where domestic violence is present.

Court records and Mercury archives indicate Carrero was arrested in December 2010 for a prior incident at Schmidt’s residence on Cherry Street. During that incident, Carrero allegedly stole Schmidt’s vehicle after an altercation in which he told her if she called the police and he got arrested, he would “do my time and then get out and come after you.”

Speaking in general about incidents of domestic violence, Flanders said it’s not uncommon for domestic violence incidents to evolve and escalate.

“Generally speaking,” he said, “when we investigate serious crimes of domestic violence,” meaning those that fall into the Part I category of crimes, such as homicides and aggravated assaults as opposed to harassment or stalking, “typically there is a history.”

And that previous murder in 2008? Also domestic violence.

One challenge of policing domestic violence, Flanders said, is that it’s not something that responds to policing.

“It doesn’t matter how good of a police agency you have when it comes to domestic violence ... those are crimes that happen in the privacy of people’s own homes. Good police work isn’t going to prevent domestics from happening,” he said. However, he emphasized, educating people about domestic violence and providing resources to victims, “those are things that can be done to reduce incidents of domestic violence.”

Flanders said he considers all incidents of domestic violence serious “because, if left unchecked, it’s going to escalate.”

Flanders said that although it’s a mistake to say there are a lot of murders in the borough, he would agree with someone who says domestic violence is a problem in the borough.

“In Pottstown, we have traditionally handled what I think is a lot of domestic calls,” he said.

The peak of such calls came in 2005, when the Pottstown Police Department handled nearly 2,000 calls for domestic violence. Since then, Flanders has addressed the issue of domestic violence differently.

“From 2005 to 2008, we started training our officers better,” he said.

There was new information regarding the psychology of domestic violence incidents, and there was also a push from advocates and agencies helping victims for law enforcement to do more.

Flanders recalled the days when very little was done to address domestic violence.

“When I started in police work (33 years ago), ... typically we split the parties up. We’d tell one party, typically the man, to go somewhere for the night to go cool off.

“Police didn’t get involved in family business,” he said. “That was the wrong approach.”

Flanders said the approach was not only ineffective, because the abuser knew there would be little consequences to their actions, but it often exacerbated the problem.

“Why would you report something if you know you’re not going to be taken seriously,” Flanders said, referencing victims of domestic violence. Furthermore, why would you report an incident to police if you knew the consequences could result in more abuse?

Pressure from organizations that advocated for victims of domestic violence affected change, going to legislators and law enforcement officials, Flanders said. “It forced us to get involved in family business.”

Thanks to those who pushed for change, there are now more programs that help victims, Flanders said. Among those programs in Montgomery County are Laurel House, the Women’s Center of Montgomery County and the Domestic Abuse Response Team (or DART) program. There are also programs that address batterers, like The S.A.F.E. Project, which stands for Stop Abuse Foster Empowerment, run by social worker Chuck Gallun.

Flanders said these programs also enable police to do a more effective job. For example, the DART program sends a volunteer to provide support to a victim of domestic violence as soon as they’re notified there is an issue. That support, Flanders said, is invaluable It “provides us with the ability to have a responder come out immediately to be with a victim. It’s given law enforcement to provide services we couldn’t before.”

Flanders recalled the frustration that he and many of his colleagues felt years ago.

“When I started in law enforcement in the late 1970s, the generation I was hired with, many were frustrated,” he said. “There were no consequences (for perpetrators of domestic violence.) There was a lot of work (done by police,) but no consequences.”

Today, “I think we’re in a much better place in that regard. But I think we have a long way to go,” Flanders said. He said he feels the “number one tool” to continue making strides against domestic violence is education. Addressing youth, in particular, is of extreme importance, he said.

It’s also important, Flanders said, that people speak up when they see, hear or suspect something is happening, even if it’s happening behind closed doors.

“If somebody observes domestic violence occurring, I hope they would give us a call and get us involved,” Flanders said. He noted that a neighbor who reports hearing abuse next door need not worry that they will be found out as the person who called police. “We don’t make it a habit of telling the names of people who call us,” he said.

Acknowledging that some people don’t want to involve the police, Flanders said there are resources victims can use that don’t mean going to the police. “There are a lot of places you can go without anybody knowing,” he said.

If you know someone who is dealing with domestic violence, help is available. Montgomery County Women’s Center can be reached at 610-970-7363; the Domestic Violence Center of Chester County can be reached at 610-431-1430; Berks County Women in Crisis can be reached at 610-372-9540; and Laurel House can be reached at 610-277-1860. The SAFE Project can help abusers stop being abusive. The Children’s SAFE Project can help kids who witness or are affected by violence in the family. For information on these programs call 610-326-9250 ext. 1197.

Follow reporter Brandie Kessler on Twitter @I_M_BrandieK

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